Mandurah’s moral dilemmas – can you help?

Every week we’re going to bring you a real-life problem being experienced by someone in our community. Your job is to advise them by voting for the best option on offer in our poll.

Let’s start solving this one!

I'm hoping you can help me with a relationship dilemma.

My boyfriend and I recently broke up after four years together. It was an extremely messy break up and one which I don't want to revisit any time soon.

However, we were both invited to a wedding next month - an event which we had both RSVPed 'yes' to months ago.

I met the couple through my ex when we first started dating, but in the time that we were together I became quite close with the bride-to-be in particular.

If my ex and I had parted ways amicably then I wouldn't mind attending the wedding as his plus one, however since there is still bad blood between the two of us I don't particularly want to be in the same room as him - let alone sit next to him for the reception.

What should I do? 

Single lady, 25

Mandurah

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